There are certain roles in life that are so consistent, so steady, that we sometimes overlook their value—not out of neglect, but simply because we grow used to their presence. One of those roles is that of a father. As Father’s Day arrives each year, it’s a rare and important chance to stop, reflect, and truly honour the man who has stood by us – not with loud declarations or daily praise, but with a quiet, steady presence that never wavers.
When we think of emotional comfort, our minds often turn to our mothers. From childhood, we associate warmth, healing, and protection with a mother’s touch. It’s her lap we cry into after a fall, her voice that soothes our worries, and her love that we often talk about with ease. But behind every comforting moment we have with our mothers, there is usually a father – watching, waiting, supporting silently.
Fathers rarely ask for attention. They don’t expect celebration. But their impact is everywhere in the things they fix without being asked, in the sacrifices they never mention, in the burdens they carry without complaint. They are the ones who silently bear the weight of their families, ensuring that life continues smoothly for everyone else, even when their own shoulders are heavy.
In my own life, my father has been this kind of man. He’s not one to talk much about his feelings, and he certainly never puts himself in the spotlight. But he has been there at every important crossroad – sometimes standing beside me, other times standing behind me to catch me if I fell. And that’s the beauty of a father’s love: it may not be loud, but it is deep and enduring.
There was a time, not too long ago, when I was going through a difficult phase. I felt emotionally exhausted, directionless, and unsure of how to move forward. I didn’t talk about it much, not because I didn’t want to, but because I couldn’t find the words. Still, my father noticed. Without confronting me or demanding answers, he simply made himself more available. Whether it was a quiet evening sitting nearby or a casual question over tea, his way of supporting me wasn’t through advice – it was through presence. And somehow, that made all the difference.
He didn’t try to fix me or tell me what to do. He didn’t try to offer solutions. What he did was far more powerful – he stood by me, quietly absorbing the emotional weight I couldn’t carry on my own. His calm gave me the space to heal, and his consistency reminded me that I wasn’t alone. It’s in moments like these that we realise how deep a father’s love runs.
This Father’s Day, we weren’t in the same city. Life had taken us to different places, and meeting in person wasn’t possible. But I still wanted to do something that would make him feel special. It didn’t have to be extravagant or fancy – it just had to be real.
So, I video-called him and surprised him with a small gesture. I had ordered two brownie cakes. The first was a fun little treat from CakeZone, shaped like a shirt and tie – something symbolic and light-hearted, perfect for Father’s Day. I even added a cute sticker of a shirt and tie, just to make it a little more personal. The second brownie was from Theobroma, beautifully decorated with the message, “Dad, I love you.”
When he saw them on the screen, he smiled, but I could see his eyes grow moist. That small moment just a video call and two brownies held so much meaning. It wasn’t about the cakes. It was about the gesture, the thought, the effort. And in that simple exchange, I saw something that fathers rarely show openly: how deeply they feel loved when they’re remembered.
Dads don’t often express how much appreciation means to them. They don’t ask for praise or emotional validation. They keep their emotions tucked away, sometimes even hidden from themselves. But that doesn’t mean they don’t feel. In fact, they feel everything – love, worry, joy, pain – just as strongly as anyone else. They just show it differently. And because of that, it’s easy to overlook how much they give, how much they care.
That’s why Father’s Day matters. Not because one day is enough to thank them for everything, but because we often forget to say these things throughout the rest of the year. It gives us an opportunity to say out loud what we’ve always felt in our hearts: “You matter. You are loved. Thank you for everything.”
Whether your father is near or far, whether your relationship is close or complex, today is a chance to acknowledge him. You don’t need a perfect message or an expensive gift. A few sincere words, a memory shared, or even just a call can make his entire day. Fathers, just like everyone else, want to feel seen. They may not say it, but they need it.
So today, take a moment. Think of the man who taught you how to ride a bike or how to stand tall in a world that sometimes feels unfair. A man who held your hand in silence when words were too hard. Think of the one who worked long hours so you could go to school, or who stayed up late waiting for you to get home safe. That man deserves more than we often give him credit for.
To my father, I want to say this: Thank you for being the calm in my storms. Thank you for listening, even when I had nothing to say. Thank you for believing in me when I couldn’t see a way forward. Your love may be quiet, but it is powerful. And I carry it with me, always.
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